In contemplation.

Last few days I been thinking; thinking whether me and Joyce can overcome our differences;thinking if we make a good couple; thinking if we have any future together...

Joyce wants me to spend my time doing stuff instead of always meeting up with her. Problem is I really enjoy spending time with her and do not see it as a waste of time. I wonder if we spend too much time together now, I wonder how it will be like after we get married. Do we get separate apartments or rooms? Or do we get jobs with different working hours?

what I expect in our relationship:

1)enjoy spending time together
2)share common interest
3)compatible opinions on most matters

#1= I do not think a minute spent with Joyce is considered wasted time.She on the other hand...

#2= common interest? hmm....let me see....errrmmm....bowling? thats one...err....what else...

#3= typical conversation:
Leon: Lets go watch a movie.
Joyce: Today cost $8.50,lets go on weekdays.
Leon:Ok.How about we go to MacRitchie Reservoir to check out the new Treetop walk?
Joyce:Its too hot!/Looks like it is going to rain./I feel too tired/I dowan to be bitten by mosquitoes
Leon:Wanna check out the Motorshow at Suntec?
Joyce: Too expensive! Cost $10 you know? Not worth...
Leon:*groan*
Joyce: Why u give me that expression?
Leon: Nothing.You have any suggestions?
Joyce:Nothing. A guy should lead..
Leon:I just gave 3 suggestions...
Joyce: But not suitable.
Leon:So why don't you tell me what you think is suitable.
Joyce:Why you always want to go out and spend money? It is not that I do not appreciate you wanting to spend time with me, it is just that by spending so much time with me you have no time to do other things. You should also spend your time doing more useful stuff..
Leon: Such as? What do you suggest?
Joyce:You never consider you future is it? Take course or what...
Leon:(to himself)Here we go again.*rolls eyes*
Joyce: You ah..always like that one...*grrr*....