Gender Wars:Can women win?
Some stuff off an article I read off the Net.I dun subscribe to all the views held here, but I do think it does provide some food for thought;
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Women get too wrapped up in romance and miss what's important to men. Romance is fine and dandy, but doesn't really matter one iota to a guy. We do it for women. It doesn't mean we're callous brutes. It's just that holding hands and talking over a candle-lit dinner doesn't necessarily ring our bell. It's the low-cut dress that does it.
Women beat us up when we stare at other women!
If a beautiful woman walks past us and we stare, don't beat us up about it. We can't help it. We're biologically programmed to stare. It doesn't mean we love you less or want to have an affair; it's a reflex. We see and we ogle.
Give us a break with all the snuggling.
It doesn't mean we're insensitive if we don't want to snuggle. After sex, don't beat us up if we want to roll over and go to sleep. We can't help it. Our bodies are depleted and exhausted. If anything, we're the ones that need to be snuggled, not vice versa.
Women often think too much into things.
Leave the big relationship issues outside the bedroom. Sometimes just having sex purely for its own sake is OK.
If something's on your mind, tell us.
We don't get subtext. We're not good with grudges. And please don't cry. Just tell us what's wrong in a reasonable manner.
Women, men and sex:
We may think we know everything about women and what they want, but we often don't have a clue. Don't drop subtle clues; tell us what turns you on and off. Don't expect us to notice subtle changes in hair color and style; tell us what's changed and then let us appreciate it. If we've learned anything, it's to make a big deal about those sorts of things even if they really don't matter.
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