The last 2 sms'es Joyce sent me today:

I find everything so aim less...No idea where m i heading....dun know what to do... I don't want to point out other's shortcomings cos i know i m not perfect...But i m confused and afraid..Jus want to be alone...I am very very tired...Hope u can understand ...

I m really impressed with yr gracious atitude ....Thanks for not forcing me and giving me the time to overcome my fear ...U will be blessed too.

It looks like me and Joyce will be taking some time apart for now. She has to go and overcome her fear and confusion (whatever that means). Hopefully she will be back and better than before.

My guess she feels insecure about how things are in her life. I love her dearly but sometimes in life you have to make difficult decisions. I hope she sees the folly of her ways before it is too late.I can be patient and 'gracious' but even I have my limitations. I can't always be the pro-active one in our relationship. It takes two to make it work!