4 days to go!

four more days to what will amount to the most important day of our lives.
most are the preparations are already in place with some stuff to be seen to:

- collect the suits and gowns from the bridal on wednesday
- collect agnes's bracelet
- clean & tidy both houses in preparation of all the guests & 'media coverage'
- go through the script with both the 'emcees' that day, Leo & the 'Honours' boy...lol...
- still undecided if we will be customising any of the music to be played that day
- whether we have the time and place to do any impromptu wedding shoots in the afternoon of the 19th
- prepare my speech that day

the other day agnes and her mum + sister were down at Tampines mall, where they purchased a lovely set of bracelet & necklace. mum also bought me a nice watch. will post up pictures of them soon at the wedding blog.

will probably be updating the Wedding Blog (whose link can be found on the left margin) more in the days and hours leading up to the Big Day. if I manage to find the time. or maybe not.

But I will be updating over there after the 16th.with all the videos,photos and such.

<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><>


the guest list is rather lopsided.
some tables are filled with 10 people.
yet others have only 6 or 7 guests.
and then there is the issue of where to seat Agnes's 2 muslim friends. I already have 1 full table of all my office colleagues and friends. so we can't fit them together. the other way around it is to split the 12 muslims into 2 tables, but Agnes is not too keen.
and now agnes has also added 2 more vegetarian guest, making in 3 in all.
have to inform sylvia about the latest changes tomorrow.

<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><>

have already emailed the limo agency our itinerary for that day. it looks a little something like this (tentatively)

9.30am - meet the groom at blk 182 Bedok North Road
10.00 am- drive over to blk 166 bedok south avenue 3 to pick up the bride
11.30 am - drive back to blk 182 Bedok North Road for lunch reception
2.00 pm - go to an undisclosed location to take some photographs if time permits
3.30 pm - check into Trader's Hotel

<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><>

Agnes and her mum are really, really close. in fact her mum is even having sleepless nights as we speak, because her beloved daughter will no longer be staying with her after her wedding. and agnes herself will take some time to get used to life in her new home.
as a result agnes and myself have agreed, to help everyone adapt to their new lifestyle, to maybe go back often for dinner and maybe even stay over at the old place if circumstances allow.
all this on condition that Agnes recognises her duties and responsibilities as a wife. it would mean that on some nights I may find myself alone at our flat. or maybe even contemplating going back to Thomson on those days that Agnes is not around. I know my parents will be missing me as well.