my side of the story

If anyone has read Nadia's blog and is wondering who the person in question is...it is ME!

I make no apologies for it. I do not know why she even brought it up in the first place. There is a time and place for everything. And the time and place for it was NOT WHEN YOU ARE CHATTING ONLINE WITH MY GIRLFRIEND WHO HAPPENS TO BE AT MY HOUSE USING MY PC. With that said I do understand nadia has her insecurities and all having known her for quite a few years.

I think that the people who know me would know that its a huge insecurity of mine. Which was why I was taken aback when someone I've known for quite awhile told me I should grow up and not be a spoilt brat.

I do not see the logic in why she even brought up the 'chubby' comment in the first place. It is taken out of context and I already explained and made my peace with her regarding it at the time of the afore said incident. For God sakes she asked me a question and asked me for my honest opinion.What was I supposed to say?

Granted, I am not super skinny, but I am not obese either. I know all that.

But, I AM sensitive. It's not about fudging the truth for an ego boost. Come to think of it, what is wrong about getting an ego boost? When someone has fallen, do you continue to rub their flaws in? Or do you encourage them to get better, or downplay the situation?

I have never brought up issues regarding her weight issues...ever. The only time the issue is even touched upon is when SHE brings it up. Yet now I am the bad guy in all of this for something said a while ago that had nothing to do with the issue Agnes and Nadia were discussing today. It is all very perplexing and disconcerting. I am just gonna put it down to a mis-communication and that both of us got off on the wrong side of bed this morning. For now...unless nadia has anything more to say on the matter...