extinguishing the eternal flame

I just hate how it feels to be ignored by Joyce. Till now I do not know why she is treating me this way. What did I ever do to deserve this?
She is my ex. Ex as in former,past and ended. I wish she would just grow up and realise that if she does not want me there are many others who do treasure me as an individual and as a person. She subscribes to all these so called 'mature' ideals about how a person should be yet her actions speak volumes about how shallow she can be at times.
Is it even wrong for a single and available guy like me to go to church with a female friend? I think she should be giving me her blessings rather than acting this way. It is almost as if she can't have me no one else can. The irony is that she was the one who initiated the break up.
I guess she still feels she owns me yet does not want to spend the rest of her life with me.
I probaly should not let this matter bother me so much but it does. I really treasure her friendship and I cherish the times we spent together. But it is about time we BOTH moved on...