Things i do not love about Agnes

Been wanting to write this one for a while now, so here goes...

1) She is beholden to her mother. I guess her mum is the most important person in her life and the one responsible most for inculcating good values to her 2 daughters. My issue here is how long Agnes is gonna hang on to her apron strings. Case in point:
i. Our holidays together. Right from the start she has objected to us going on holiday together. Maybe if I were in her shoes I would feel the same way about my daughter sleeping in the same room with some guy. But what affects me most is how Agnes seemingly accept this fact and even agrees with it. I just wonder if when we are married I will face the old mother-in-law thing where the spouse is torn between their partner and the domineering parent.

2) Agnes is non-expressive. I just wish she would say more often how much she loves and treasures me. And not treat my expressions of love as 'mushy'. It sometimes hurts even when she says things that belittle me, although I know she is joking. I have issues I know but someties I just wish she would be more expressive instead of making me feel so small.

3) Despite being together for a while now,Agnes still has no concept of driving. It is hard to describe in words here, but I would assume being a constant passenger in Sunny that she would have a vague idea about what goes into driving and parking and all the grouses of owning a car. A bit far fetched I know. But I just wish I could talk to her about it and get more than just a blank look. She seems lost at what I am so upset about(people cutting into my lane etc),or when i get frustrated at not being able to find a parking lot or when I need her assistance to park or scout out a blind spot.

4) She worries too much for her own good.Maybe in some circles worrying is a sign you care. But to me worrying is wasteful unless you have real reasons to be. It is alright if there are legitimate reasons and concerns. But worrying for the sake of worrying is so not on.

5) Lyn. I thought I been through hell and back with Joyce. But seems like Agnes and Lyn have issues too. It can get bothersome and weary to have to deal with catty comments and ground rules pertaining to the 2 antagonist. I just wish everyone could just get along and not have me to choose between them on everything. I love Agnes dearly and would never do anything to compromise our relationship.

6) That is all for now...